maxHeadSize worked for me. Perhaps try setting it this way?
q=quiver(x,y,u,v);
q.MaxHeadSize = 0.01;
For length of the arrow, the following options are given in the documentation: "quiver(...,scale) automatically scales the arrows to fit within the grid and then stretches them by the factor scale. scale = 2 doubles their relative length, and scale = 0.5 halves the length. Use scale = 0 to plot the velocity vectors without automatic scaling. You can also tune the length of arrows after they have been drawn by choosing the Plot Edit tool, selecting the quiver object, opening the Property Editor, and adjusting the Length slider."